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Thursday, May 24, 2012

"How many times do I have to say it?'!

As a mom, I will go out on a limb and say that I am a pro.  I have been doing this now for fifteen years, so when I look at my three kids(some who are taller than me) and they are walking, talking, feeding themselves, I feel pretty good.  When they bring home honor roll, I feel awesome.  When other people compliment them, I am on cloud nine!  "Pat yourself on the back" I say to myself, you done good.

And then there are those times when I think, "Does anyone listen to anything I say?", "Am I talking to myself?". Today was one of those days.  I was leaving a message on some one's answering machine, my two teenagers standing mere feet away-they could see I was on the phone.  And what did I have to do?  That's right, I had to tell them to be quiet DURING my message.  It goes without saying that after said message was delivered, I delivered it to them.  "How many times do I have to say it?  Be quiet when I am on the phone!"  Maybe I am far from being a pro.  Maybe I need more practice.  Maybe my kids need to listen to what their mother tells them!

I know, the behavior could have been something way more offensive and I should be grateful-I am grateful that they are good kids.  Just puh-leeease refrain from loud conversation twenty-four inches away from someone(especially me)who is on the phone.  I think they were sufficiently surprised by my just-so reaction.  My delivery was spot on.  And then I was dead silent-that was the kicker.  Good behavior has prevailed for the last five hours.  But tomorrow is another day....